So after an eventful morning with friends at a local tea room with outdoor play for a littles, why do we feel under such pressure from other parents?? The owners of the tea room couldn't be more welcoming and with it being about the children quite happy for them to do as they please... There was water play here our girls definitely weren't afraid of getting wet, which then in turn led them to strip off to vest and knickers.. It's warm here they were protected from the sun as well as they could be.. So why did we feel the need to ensure our children got dressed when they were doing no harm and playing happily... Everyone has different ways of parenting not one is right or wrong.. Should we be pressured or judged aslong as the children are safe and happy?